Date 2071-03-26
Nirjala Adhikari
Writing
of the Day
I want to start my writing with the saying of Maya
Angelou, “ I do not trust people who don.t love themselves and yet tell me ‘ I
love you’. There is an African saying which is: Be careful when a naked people
offers you a short.” While taking about
love, it,s more than word. It,s difficult to define the word ‘love’ because it
has more value on feeling than saying. Everyone have different feelings while
she or he is in love. But before loving others we have to love ourself. Love
yourself and watch then you obviously seems your life beautiful.
But loving ownself is a great deal. Many people are
not able do this because they are not ready to accept themselves whatever they
are. Although, they are seeking the love of others in their life. That is one
of the greatest illusion of human life because if we should not love ourself
then how should others able to love us. So, I am always fascinated by the saying
of Maya Angelou which I already mentioned above. Infact loving ownself has
greater value then loving others. Only those people who love ownself able to
give love to others.
There are different kind of love which we found in
our life. The unconditional love of parents, caring and warm love of brothers
and sisters, kindful love of friends as well as different kind of love of life
partner. All those types of love given by different people have different kind
of taste. Although, different kind of love is hooked on different kind of
relationship. Sometimes we do make lot,s
of mistake which might ruined our relationship. But mistake is a single page of
life but relation is a complete book. So, don,t loose full book for a single page.
According to Osho,” IF you love a person, how can you destroy his or her freedom? If
you trust her or his freedom too.” I am so much impressed by this saying of
Osho because if we are in love with
someone then we have to accept his or her all the vice and virtue too. We have
to respect his\her freedom too because he\she love himself\herself rather than
other. So, loving somebody is somehow is loving ownself. That,s why before
loving someone we have to love ourself.
In a nutshell, love yourself and love
others. Being in a love is good thing. It gives us motivation, inspiration and
positive flavour. So, love yourself and watch. You definitely found your life beautiful.