Mero Sansar- Nirjala Adhikari

         कतै सुनेको थिएँ लेख्न सबैभन्दा सजिलो विषय प्रेम हो र सबैभन्दा गाह्रो पनि । थाहा छैन प्रेममा खर्चिएका मसिहरु  कति हाँसो र आँशुले सिँचित छन् । समयको कठिन परिधिमा निस्सासीएका मानिसहरु किन प्रेम भन्ने बित्तिकै उन्मुक्त हुन्छन्? कति कुरा गर्न लजाउँछन्, कति प्रेम गर्छु भन्न डराउँछन् र कति पक्षिहरुझै आफ्नै प्रेमको उडानमा पर पर पुग्छन् । किन प्रेम आफैँमा पूर्ण भएर पनि अपूर्णझै हर प्रेमीहरुको इन्द्रेणीमा अर्को रंग बनेर घुल्छ ।          प्रेम गर्नु भनेको कोमल हुनु हो । प्रेमको इतिहास कोमलताको इतिहास हो । कसैलाई तिमी कमजोरीसहित अपनाउँछौ, उसका गल्तिहरुमा हाँसिदिन्छौ र फेरी अर्को मौका दिन्छौ र कठोरताको कैंचीले उसको उडानलाई रोक्दैनौ भने त्यो प्रेम नै हो । तिमी हर  कसैलाई प्रेम गर्न सक्छौ तर प्रेमको बदला प्रेम नै म्याथको र्फमूला  माइनस माइनस प्लस जस्तो नहुन सक्छ । प्रेम गर्दिन कहिल्यै प्रेम गरिन भन्नेहरु पनि प्रेम गर्छन् । प्रेमको मैफिललाई नकार्नेहरु  जीवनको संगित र सिम्फोनीलाई पनि नकार्न सक्छन् । नर्कानु अर्को कुरा  तर कसैलाई प्रेम नै गरिन भन्नु मिथ्या मात्र हो ।         हर प्रेमीहरु सुन

Sometimes more than anything else I found the word itself quite interesting one. Offcourse word does not only mean syntagmatic form but also the connotation of it. Today, I am going to talk about the word “cliche”, maybe it is a beautiful word for many people. I don’t know why but it has a quite negative effect on me. The word is hunting me for many days. Recently, I asked one of my closest friends, “What is your opinion about cliche?” His reaction was quite normal although I asked him suddenly out of the blue. He told me in which sense are you asking me? I said to him in general. Then he replied- what you are saying. it is itself a cliche. Somehow I convinced on his opinion. Dictionary defines it a stereotypical opinion or phrase but in a larger sense, we can see it in our thought process, system of governance and also in a bureaucracy. I think we all are the product of cliches because we hardly raise question over the existing thought process, culture and discourses. And we accep